Happy New Year!
Here’s to a year filled with happiness, health, success, and of course, parties!
Happy New Year!
Here’s to a year filled with happiness, health, success, and of course, parties!
When Cibella informed me that she wanted a “pretty swamp” theme for her birthday party, I must admit that I was a bit perplexed. How was I going to make a swamp girlie and pretty? Finally, it hit me! I used inspiration from Princess and the Frog; the artwork portraying the bayou was incredibly beautiful!
While the focus of the party, as you will see in my next post, did not focus on the princess aspect, I used a silhouette of a girl kissing a frog with dragonflies surrounding the party details.

I used the lyrics to Down in New Orleans for the opening lines of the invitation:
The evening star is shining bright
So make a wish and hold on tight
There’s magic in the air tonight
And anything can happen…
My daughter requested the use of greens and purples, so I choose an avocado green paper and contrasted it with the use of lavender and plum details.

I decorated the backside of the invitation with a triple layered seal featuring my daughter’s initial and a dainty crown

Since she couldn’t choose which envelope she preferred, we opted to send half of the invitations in avocado and the other in lavender. I was fortunate that the USPS had Mark Twain stamps featuring a riverboat which lended to the bayou theme.

Stay tuned for all of the wonderful party details as we party down on the bayou!

We’ve been celebrating milestone birthdays around here left and right at Belleza e Luce. I’m so happy to share this one with you today because it was styled for my Dad, who turned 60 at the end of July. My Dad was never one to celebrate or acknowledge his birthday – loves to celebrate anyone else’s, but not his, so much so that we couldn’t even say, “Happy Birthday,” to him. However, something happened in this last year and when he started talking about wanting a party, my mother and I just about fainted!
The party theme was obvious – he loves anything golf, and I knew we needed to keep it low-key, fun, and the emphasis not so much on his age, but on gathering with friends and family.
I created a simple invitation with an actual golf tee inserted into the paper; a green and navy argyle patterned bellywrap covers the party details until the big reveal exposing who the party was for (a huge surprise to family and friends!). The mailing label features the argyle pattern and silhouette of a golfer in navy.



This summer, I have been 0-2 in hosting parties outdoors, being rained out twice. Would I strike out? Thankfully, my prayers and sun dances were answered! We had a beautifully sunny and warm day with no threat of any inclement weather.

I used golf tees, golf balls, and wheatgrass everywhere in the decor. I also created 8×10 signs that were placed around the yard with golf sayings (e.g Fore!, Par-Tee, Bogie, etc.), quotes from Caddyshack and from famous golfers.


As guests arrived they were asked to guess the number of golf tees in the bowl with a chance to win the coveted “Par-Tee Tournament Trophy.” The closest guess was 744 with the actual number being 729 (as his birthday is July 29th – clever, huh?)


We had a a 9 hole mini golf course brought in, which provided endless fun for the younger guests and a cut-throat competition amongst the golf-fanatic adults.


We served Arnold Palmers (non-alcoholic) and pitchers of Water Hazards (rennamed Blue Hawaii cocktails), in addition to other refreshments at the 19th Hole.

In addition to the mini golf course, the kids enjoyed splashing in the pool and decorating foam visors with stickers, markers, and glitter.

Since my Dad has always enjoyed the movie, Caddyshack, it was only fitting that the famous gopher make an appearance. He popped up at the dessert table which displayed Donut Hole-in-Ones (munchkins) in golf ball baskets, Water Hazards (blue raspberry jello), Sand Traps (Rice Krispie treats), Chocolate Chip Shot Cookies, and the amazing, delicious tiered cake featuring greens, water hazards, and golf flags by Joy&Cake. Did I mentioned how yummy it was? I created the wheatgrass stand that the cake was displayed on.




Old golf bags and clubs of my Dad’s were placed on the side of the table as well as around the yard.



It was too hot for these guys to make an appearance while the sun was out, so they were placed on the dessert table as the sun was setting.

They are now happily living in my cousin’s pond.
Guests went home with a package of golf balls and customized golf tees that read, “Gary’s 60th Par-Tee.”




The party was a hole-in-one! (Yes, pun intended!)
We are heading into Wedding Season here at Belleza e Luce and with that comes the many events associated with weddings: bridal showers, bridesmaid luncheons, rehearsal dinners, day-after brunches, and of course the wedding itself. As you prepare your guest lists for your celebrations, keep in mind the following invitation envelope etiquette.
| Couples | ||
| Outer Envelope | Inner Envelope | |
| Married Couples | Mr. and Mrs. David Smith | Mr. and Mrs. Smith (or less formal: Michelle and David) |
| Married Couples, woman kept maiden name | Ms. Michelle Taylor and Mr. David Smith | Ms. Taylor and Mr. Smith |
| Unmarried couples living or not living together (mail to the person you know best if the couple does not live together) | Ms. (or Miss) Rebecca Jones
Mr. Robert Smith |
Ms. (or Miss) Jones
Mr. Smith |
| Two women or men over age 18 living together, address alphabetically or by the person you know best | Mr. Benjamin Adams
Mr. James Roberts |
Mr. Adams
Mr. Roberts |
| Children | ||
| Outer Envelope | Inner Envelope | |
| Child under 18 | Do not include on outer envelope, if you do not have an inner envelope, then add “and family” on the second line of address | Mr. and Mrs. Smith
Leah 2 or more children – written in order of birth, oldest first Mr. and Mrs. Smith Leah, Joseph, and Michael |
| Children over 18
receive their own invitation |
Miss Barbara Taylor
or Mr. Thomas Smith |
Miss Taylor
If allowing the invitee to bring a guest: Mr. Thomas Smith and Guest |
| Single Guests | ||
| Outer Envelope | Inner Envelope | |
| Unmarried Male | Mr. David Smith | Mr. Smith and Guest |
| Unmarried Female | Ms. or Miss Rebecca Jones | Ms. or Miss Jones and Guest |
| Widowed Female* | Mrs. Nicole Taylor | Mrs. Taylor and Guest |
| Divorced Female, *
kept married name |
Ms. Jessica Roberts | Ms. Roberts and Guest |
| Divorced Female, *
maiden name |
Ms. Amanda Thomas |
Ms. Thomas and Guest |
| Special Titles | ||
| Outer Envelope | Inner Envelope | |
| Doctor, Male | Dr. and Mrs. David Smith | Dr. and Mrs. Smith |
| Clergy | Reverend and Mrs. John Taylor | Reverend and Mrs. Taylor |
| Officer, Male
(retired or active) |
Commander and Mrs. James Roberts | Commander and Mrs. Roberts |
| Judge | The Honorable and Mrs. Thomas James | Judge and Mrs. James |
| Female with any special titles | Dr. Emily Taylor and Mr. John Taylor |
Dr. Taylor and Mr. Taylor |
* It is always considerate to inquire with the female relative or friend how she prefers to be addressed in these circumstances or if you are unsure of her last name status. In the event that you feel awkward speaking directly to this person, ask someone else who would know the answer; it will be appreciated that you care enough to make sure your guest is addressed appropriately.
This past Saturday, Belleza e Luce had the pleasure of being an exhibitor at the Wedding Set Go bridal show at the Sheraton. It was my first Bridal Show experience, and I think it went quite well. I met some wonderful brides-to-be and hope to work with them in the future on their weddings. I didn’t take my large camera with me, so for now, I only have these photos taken from my camera phone.
… FINALLY!
Belleza e Luce is now on facebook! We are working to add photos and more information in the coming day. Be sure to stop by, say hi, and ‘like’ us!
And for any NJ area brides – be sure to stop by the Wedding, Set Go Bridal Show on Sunday, February 20th at the Sheraton. Belleza e Luce will be there showcasing our invitations and event planning. We would love to meet you!
Our Rootin’ Tootin’ Cowboy Birthday Party is featured today on Birthday Girl. We are so honored and pleased.
Please take a moment to visit Becca’s wonderful blog. She posts fabulously original birthdays and parties!
Just listed in our Etsy shop are some wonderful mini card set collections, perfect for your child to give to classmates and friends. From cupcakes to dinosaurs, even superheros and woodland creatures, the card sets are personalized with your custom message.
Upon request, we can create coordinating cupcake toppers, favor tags, and invitations for your special Valentine’s Day party!
With the holiday season officially over, I thought I would jump right into 2011 with an inspiration board designed for a children’s Valentine’s party.
I tend to keep Valentine parties on the simpler side, focusing on friendship, crafts, and activities, and keep a color palette of red, pink, and white. I based this inspiration board on our new printable Valentine Hearts invitation, now available in our Etsy shop.
{sources: bonbons, garland, table runner, centerpiece, chairback decor, pistachio wreath, cookies, invitation, tic tac toe, candy sundae, cupcake toppers, legwarmers, friendship bracelet}
Tips for hosting a Children’s Valentine’s Party:
Contact Belleza e Luce today for customized Inspiration Boards for your next event or to schedule a Valentine’s Party for your child!